1. What does being a leader mean to you?
Most people talked about being a good example and encouraging others to work hard. But thoughts that stuck out to me included:
- Leaders give credit to the team when things go well and take the blame when things don't
- Leaders give their time and allow others to ask questions without making others feel dumb or an idiot, these leaders are approachable
2. What characteristics make a good leader?
Many answers included hard working, motivated, selfless, confident, and discipline. Some of the comments that really stuck out to me included:
- Leaders invests in helping others improve
- Leaders are willing to do anything they ask others to do (nothing is below them)
- Leaders are easy to relate to and are approachable
- Leaders ask for input and have desires to continually improve themselves, not just others
- Leaders are willing to step down if needed or if they recognize someone may be able to better do something than they could
3. Where do you observe the leadership skills of others?
The most normal answers given were work, church, and family. It was pointed out that in reality leadership is present whenever a decision needs to be made and thus it can be observed on a daily bases with any individuals you surround yourself with.
4. Who do you observe leadership skills in?
My boss, friends, church leaders, professors/teachers, and parents were the most common answers for this questions. Though a few different people mentioned the following:
- You can observe leadership skills in everyone. Everyone can be a leader because there are so many different ways to be a leaders
- Circumstances can create leaders
One person also made the comments about viewing the leadership skills in athletes. I found this interesting because I feel that I gained many of my leadership skills being on the swim team. Both from viewing the example of older swimmers, but also by being a lane leader and team captain.
5. Have you experienced bad leadership? What kind of qualities may have caused this bad leadership?
I loved reading these answers, maybe because I also have had my share of bad leaders and seeing that others recognize these characters as bad validates my own opinions. My favorite comment made was:
"Bad leadership is the lack of leadership!"
Other comments made included that these leaders are not approachable, they don't listen to others, they are always looking out for themselves and trying to look good, they are full of pride and have to micromanage because no one can do it as well as they can. These kind of leaders feel entitled and have a desire for power, yet they don't take responsibility for the mistakes and don't take time to help or get to know others.
6. How do you evaluate the success of leaders?
Most answers included being able to communicate with their team and bring out the best in those they work with. Some of my favorite answers included:
- If the team doesn't want to let their leader down and will do most anything their leader
- The team has respect has for their leader (even though they may not necessarily like them as a person)
- Leaders bring out the best in their team and the people around them
7. What kinds of experiences have helped you gain leadership skills?
Everyone mentioned the opportunities they have been give whether in school, church, or extra curricular activities have helped them gain new leadership skills. Working with great leaders who give leadership opportunities to others are great learning opportunities. More responses that I really liked also included:
- Practice, practice, practice
- Reading leadership and business books and articles
- Learning from failures
"Failure in a leadership position can lead to an excellent opportunity to gain new leadership skills."
8. What do you do to develop leadership skills in yourself?
Many people commented about following the example of great people around them or those they have read about in books and in doing research. Putting yourself in places and trying to get out of your comfort zone (taking a new classes, taking risks, learning new things) help in gaining leadership skills and building confidence. Some of the other ideas I really liked included:
- Remember to put myself in the shoes of others (especially those you're leading) and thinking about their thoughts and feelings
- Reflecting on good leaders had and what you have valued and appreciated
- Take a weakness and work on it becoming a strength
9. What do you think are the bigger challenges facing leaders today?
In this response there was a lot of discussion about the raising generation wanting something for nothing and feeling a great amount of entitlement. There are also many distractions we have surrounding us in the world and that multitasking can become a major issue when trying to get work done. We also have all the information we could ever want from the internet and sometimes this may cause people to think they know it all and that they have all the answers, for right or wrong. So not only is it important to avoid being this way, but also to realize how to motivate and communicate with such people is important as leaders. However, one of my favorite responses included:
- The need for our society to except failure and not be so critical. Often leaders are afraid to fail because our society doesn't allow it.
10. What characteristics do you think are most important? (each person choose 3)
Honest: 8
Ability to Delegate: 4
Communication: 9
Sense of Humor: 2
Confidence: 3
Commitment: 3
Positive Attitude: 8
Creativity: 0
Intuition: 0
Ability to Inspire: 11
You can see that most people think the ability to inspire, being able to communicate, having a positive attitude, and being honest are the most important characteristics.
Overall, I really enjoyed this assignment and the different insights I was able to gain from the 16 people that took the quiz. I find it interesting that anyone who wants to be a leader can be one and in many different ways. But I do think it is important to be your own best leader and not try to be someone else. It is also important to give opportunities to others in being their best self and leader!